Prior to our conversation I assumed the label of “bisexual,” knowing that it didn’t quite fit, but without an alternative what was I supposed to do? As I sat intently listening to their explanation it suddenly felt like I had found this little part of me that I didn’t know was missing. Wait, Gray-A? What’s that?
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This article is brought to you by Ignixia Roberts. Ask any kinkster and they’re likely to agree, negotiation is vital to setting up consensual kink play and even an important basis for dominant/submissive relationships.Before we get into different styles, what is negotiation?Most often “negotiate” is a word we see when it comes to business deals in the non-kink world which means “to obtain or bring about by discussion.” In the kink world negotiating is the discussion we have before play, forming relationships, or other related activity to make sure that all sides involved are able to get what they want out of a situation. This is where we obtain consent for things to come.How negotiating things to come depends greatly on the negotiation…
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It might seem like a straight forward concept, but pet play is actually an umbrella term for a collection of adaptations or preferences that exist within a niche, but fun, kink.
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This is all to say that BDSM is a healthy and consensual form of expression—in fact, the current BDSM 4C Consent Model is based around caring, communication, consent and caution.
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This is all to say that BDSM is a healthy and consensual form of expression—in fact, the current BDSM 4C Consent Model is based around caring, communication, consent and caution.
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What happens in your head when you get flogged? Scientific researchers and professional dominatrixes talk about endorphins and all the other neurochemicals that make bondage so delightful.
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